Clean Your Sex Toys Properly Based on Material

One size doesn't fit all when it comes to sex toys, and the same goes for cleaning them. You can't wash and dry everything the same way—it depends on what material they're made out of.

It's important to keep sex toys clean so you don't spread bacteria to yourself or your partner(s). Health and beauty site Divine Caroline suggests adult toy cleaner (which is usually available at any adult shop) or antibacterial soap and water for all toys, with a few specific instructions for each material. (Regular soap should be just fine too, as we've explained before.)

• Rubber/jelly: These are porous and can trap a lot of bacteria, so a thorough wash with soap and water or rubber-specific toy cleaner is a must.
• Silicone: Silicone isn't porous so a gentle soap and water wash will do.
• Glass, Pyrex, or stainless steel: Basically the same as silicone. Pyrex can also go in the dishwasher (as long as it's not battery or electrically operated, of course).
• Cyberskin, Neoskin, and other skin-like materials: Depending on material, these can be porous so a thorough wash and dry is the way to go. Divine Caroline also suggests a light coating of cornstarch to keep these toys maintained.

Click the link below for more instructions on keeping your toys clean and safe to use.

3 Ways to Make Your Acting Dangerous //backstage.com

Even non-actors can spot acting that has an element of danger to it—even if they can’t articulate that it is in fact the sense of danger that keeps their eyes glued to the screen or stage. One of the major dynamics at work which makes “Breaking Bad” such a phenomenal show (aside from brilliant writing and great casting) is the element of danger that all the characters commit to fully. The actors on the show either commit to instilling their acting with such danger or to being visibly affected by it. These commitments can’t help but foster the very palpable sense that something really terrible may happen at any moment—which makes it truly glorious to watch.

It’s your job to figure out where the danger in the scene is and to consistently ask yourself where and how you can add a more genuine element of danger.

1. Surprise Your Partner. 

The Rare Fetish Survival Guide: 3 Tips From A Woman Who Has One

Molly Ren for www.thefrisky.com

When I first began to put together the puzzle of my sexuality, the revelation that I had a rare  fetish touched off a cascade of feelings. It began with relief, as I had finally figured out why penis-in-vagina sex had never worked for me. Later there was fear, as I wondered whether my desires were even safe to carry out in real life. But after a few months, everything had settled into a baseline of pure frustration.

It turns out that I’m into feederism—a fetish that revolves around fat, overeating, and weight gain. Four years of high-school sex-ed left me woefully unprepared for the reality of having unusual sexual needs, and in the beginning, I was almost entirely alone while trying to figure out such basic things as how to find the porn or how exactly to go about realizing my fantasies. For many years, I didn’t even know what keywords to type into Google in order to find the kind of porn I dreamed about (“fat,” unsurprisingly, tends to lead more to diet tips than videos of good-looking men joyfully eating entire cakes). When my girlfriends got together to compare notes on their sex lives, what was normal to them was no help to me at all. Even when I finally discovered a group of people that I was comfortable talking about my fetish with, I was still the only person in a group of 30 that had these particular needs. To that end, here are some of the things I wish I’d known when I discovered I had a fetish:

1. If you can’t find porn you like, make your own. 

A girls guide to looking good naked - Film

Great little instructional video for the girls on how to look good naked. It goes from how to take care of your body all the way to creating the right mood and using the right accessories when you are showing off your nudity and/or are trying to seduce someone. Might also be interesting to the guys.


videojug.com via my-nightstand :.

'Midori's Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage'

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7 rules for writers on the composition of sex scenes

examiner.com:

Today’s Philadelphia Literature Examiner column has advice for authors who want to write about sex. Don’t Do It.
This is good advice and you really should take it. Not because sex is a bad thing (it isn’t). Not because the Philly Lit Examiner is a prude, or thinks his readers are prudes, or thinks there should be more prudery in American letters specifically or in American culture generally (he isn’t, they aren’t, he doesn’t and doesn’t).

Imprint your body with painful lingerie

Dutch designer Ninette van Kamp has a new line of lingerie that has a very special characteristic. Through the use of artfully placed seams, beads, and textured fabric she creates intimate, temporary patterns in the skin. The line with the name "Souffrez Pour Moi" ( Suffer for me) includes the Bejeweled Bra, the Bejeweled knickers, and the Glitterati bodysuit. Enjoy!

&copy Souffrez Pour Moi

via my-nightstand.com

If the recession really is driving more women to try professional domination...

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Michael Manning. Новый рисунок и поэтапное хауту

  
 


 

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Вопрос Time Out: Как надо и как не надо описывать сексуальные сцены?

Александр Иванов,
директор издательства Ad Marginem
В русской классической литературе лучшее, на мой взгляд, описание любовного настроения — это сцена в «Анне Карениной», когда Левин на грифельной доске зашифровывает признание в любви к Кити и просит ту разгадать шифр. И она разгадывает его вопросы и отвечает ему, казалось бы, безответно влюбленному: «Да». Причем важно, что Кити произносит вслух то, что Левин осмеливается только написать, важна эта асимметрия признаний. Что касается описания полового акта, то есть только один способ избежать рационализирующего порновзгляда — описывать любовный акт так, как если бы у него не было свидетелей, то есть так, как он на самом деле и происходит. Каким образом? Примерно так, как это в одном стихотворении сделал Пушкин. Он описал два женских типа и, соответственно, два вида полового акта: условно «страстный»/быстрый и «холодный»/медленный (отдав предпочтение второму).

Сергей Пархоменко,
главный редактор издательской группы «Аттикус Паблишинг»
На первом месте здесь, конечно, будет «Лолита». Это великий роман, и он полон эротики. Секс описан в нем так, что не вызывает физиологического отвращения. Русский же язык в принципе очень плохо приспособлен для описания секса. Он либо скатывается в медицину, и у читателя возникают образы слизистых оболочек и желез внутренней секреции, либо в пошлую конфетность, так что текст начинает напоминать магазин резиновых фаллосов. Я не могу назвать ни одного современного российского автора, который не скатывался бы в одну из крайностей и действительно хорошо описывал сексуальный экшен. В этом смысле находкой стал только Мишель Уэльбек, отлично переведенный на русский. В общем, для русской речи описание секса — проблема филологического характера. 

http://www.timeout.ru/journal/feature/2632/3

Технологія японського мейк-апу

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	Make up eyeline by Stage liner black or Aqua color black. Make up eyebrow line by Aqua color black or Lining color black.
	Lip make up by Lining #4B,#4C or Aqua Color #Kyomizubeni Hand and foot(leg) make up same as …A

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Обращение с садомазохистами. Из инструкции по телефонному сексу

И Н С Т Р У К Ц И Я
В помощь сотрудницам «Телефона общения», «Секс по телефону»

и вам остается только помогать ветру «надувать паруса короткими», но громкими и проникновенными словосочетаниями типа «да, мой Господин», «не бейте меня, Господин, я всё сделаю как Вы велите» или – «я виновата, накажите меня, пусть мне будет еще больнее». Скорее всего, в глубине души вам будет невероятно смешно, по упаси вас Бог показать нечаянно свои эмоции – трубка будет брошена клиентом без объяснения причин и, хоть и недолгий, но практически ежедневный диалог с данным садистом больше никогда у вас не повторится. А вам оно надо?


Для начала неплохо хотя бы примерно определить, для чего звонит тот или иной ваш собеседник. Условно их можно поделить на несколько «разновидностей».